{"id":527,"date":"2015-08-18T13:04:25","date_gmt":"2015-08-18T17:04:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/?p=527"},"modified":"2015-09-01T21:10:45","modified_gmt":"2015-09-02T01:10:45","slug":"time-to-pause-and-refresh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/time-to-pause-and-refresh\/","title":{"rendered":"Time To Pause and Refresh"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-in-Rapallo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-532\" alt=\"Hotel in Rapallo\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-in-Rapallo-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-in-Rapallo-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-in-Rapallo.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">By Tim Turner<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Summer is a great time to pause and refresh by taking a vacation. My wife Melissa and I have been so blessed to be able to go on an annual anniversary trip.\u00a0\u00a0Well to rewind, the first few years were just dinner out, not a trip.\u00a0\u00a0We have over the years as the kids gotten older worked our way up to bigger trips like Quebec, Napa, and St. Lucia.\u00a0\u00a0Our in-laws come to spend time with their grand-kids while we go on our trip.<\/p>\n<p>This year for our 24th anniversary we took a trip to Italy and Greece.\u00a0I could fill pages telling you about the incredible food, beautiful views, and all the historical sites.\u00a0\u00a0For this article, I want to focus on the idea of what it means to &#8220;pause and refresh&#8221;&#8230; and slow down.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cappuccino.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-529\" alt=\"cappuccino\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cappuccino-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cappuccino-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/cappuccino.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>As a coffee drinker, I love going to Europe because there is a cafe ready to serve you top quality coffee about every 25 feet.\u00a0You think Starbucks is everywhere&#8230; go to Italy and count the number of places you can get espresso and cappuccino.\u00a0Even if you stop at a &#8220;rest area&#8221; by the highway, they have no coffee &#8220;to go&#8221; cups.\u00a0\u00a0Instead they have a $30,000 coffee machine just like in the cafes with a real person making high quality espressos and cappuccinos.\u00a0In a gas station, people were 15 deep to belly up to the &#8220;bar&#8221; to get an espresso before continuing on their way.\u00a0There were no instant press-a-button coffee machines there to quickly fill a cup and run&#8230; No, they paid a skilled person to be there and run a high end espresso machine.\u00a0In a gas station.<\/p>\n<p>One tidbit you might not know is that in Italy they don&#8217;t ever serve coffee in a &#8220;to go&#8221; cup.\u00a0In fact, they don&#8217;t even have &#8220;to go&#8221; cups.\u00a0\u00a0Trust me.\u00a0\u00a0I asked.\u00a0I asked at many places.\u00a0I asked at small cafes.\u00a0I asked at espresso bars and street carts.\u00a0I asked at high end hotel restaurants.\u00a0&#8220;No no no&#8221; I kept being told.\u00a0This was very odd to me.\u00a0We had a rental car and needed to hit the road.\u00a0I need my<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_531\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-grandeur-fasano.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-531\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-531 \" title=\"Hotel grande Fasano\" alt=\"Hotel grande Fasano\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-grandeur-fasano-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-grandeur-fasano-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Hotel-grandeur-fasano.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-531\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hotel Grande Fasano in Lake Garda area of northern Italy<\/p><\/div>\n<p>coffee for the trip.\u00a0&#8220;No no no Senore&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Our rental car was an Audi and i<\/p>\n<p>t had no cup holders.\u00a0Let me repeat that&#8230; NO cup holders.\u00a0\u00a0 Why?\u00a0because Italians don&#8217;t drink coffee to go and they don&#8217;t drink anything while driving.\u00a0I think because it takes too much focus to drive over there.\u00a0Having lived through Atlanta traffic for 18 years, though, I held my own pretty good against the Italian drivers. Contrast this with America where my new son-in-law, who sells cars for Toyota\u00a0is most frequently asked &#8220;how many cup holders does this car have&#8221; as a major buying criteria.<\/p>\n<p>One of the hotels we stayed at was the Hotel Grande Fasano on Lake Garda.\u00a0It was a historical palace converted into a hotel with glorious views of the massive lake.\u00a0Before we were to leave one night to go to Verona, I asked one of the ladies working there if I could get some coffee to go.\u00a0She said &#8220;sure you can take the china up to your room\u201d. I said, &#8220;No I meant a paper cup to take in the car.&#8221;\u00a0She said &#8220;no no no we don&#8217;t have any.\u00a0You are in such a hurry.\u00a0If you want coffee you need to slow down and take the time to enjoy it, even if it&#8217;s 5 minutes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_553\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/20150724_123419_300x169.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-553\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-553\" title=\"View of harbor in Rapallo while sipping capuccino...\" alt=\"20150724_123419_300x169\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/20150724_123419_300x169.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-553\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">View of harbor in Rapallo while sipping capuccino&#8230;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>OK at first I was annoyed by this, but as our trip went on I realized that it was definitely better to have high quality coffee while pausing to enjoy it, rather than running out the door with a &#8220;to go&#8221; cup.\u00a0Even when we went to a cafe for lunch, we saw people popping in at all times of the day for an espresso.\u00a0They stayed for a few minutes and were off.\u00a0But for those few minutes they stopped to pause and refresh&#8230; and slow down.<\/p>\n<p>Besides the coffee though my wife and I found plenty of places to stop and pause and refresh.\u00a0In Rappallo, a city near Portofino on the Italian riviera, we would take a daily walk through and around town for our exercise, and also to see the town on foot.\u00a0We found a guy with a coffee stand by the harbor and would get a cappuccino every day and just sit by the harbor&#8230; and pause for just a few minutes.\u00a0We enjoyed the view of the boats and the people walking by&#8230;the morning sunshine warming our faces&#8230;while enjoying our cappuccinos&#8230; and fancy that\u00a0it was served in a real china cup&#8230;.from a guy running a &#8220;coffee stand&#8221; down by the water.<\/p>\n<p>The Italians are definitely onto something.\u00a0Taking the time to enjoy a cappuccino or espresso is the perfect way to &#8220;pause and refresh&#8221; so that you are ready to face the rest of your day&#8230;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_533\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Opera-in-Verona.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-533\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-533\" title=\"Opera in Verona\" alt=\"Opera in Verona\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Opera-in-Verona-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Opera-in-Verona-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Opera-in-Verona.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-533\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Opera in Verona inside the Roman Arena right before the start of &#8220;Don Giovanni&#8221;<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_530\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/gondola-ride.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-530\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-530\" alt=\"gondola ride\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/gondola-ride-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/gondola-ride-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/gondola-ride.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-530\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Gondola ride in Venice<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_535\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Ravalli.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-535\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-535\" alt=\"View from hotel in Rapallo\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Ravalli-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Ravalli-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Ravalli.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-535\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">View from hotel in Rapallo<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_534\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/perfect-Cappuccino.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-534\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-534\" alt=\"Perfect Cappuccino\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/perfect-Cappuccino-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/perfect-Cappuccino-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/perfect-Cappuccino.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-534\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The most perfect and delicious cappuccino ever&#8230; or at least on that particular day!<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_528\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Cappuccino-at-Hotel-Excelsior.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-528\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-528\" alt=\"Cappuccino at Hotel Excelsior in Rapallo\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Cappuccino-at-Hotel-Excelsior-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Cappuccino-at-Hotel-Excelsior-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Cappuccino-at-Hotel-Excelsior.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-528\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cappuccino at Hotel Excelsior in Rapallo on fine china with the logo of the hotel on every piece.<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_536\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/The-water.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-536\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-536\" alt=\"The water\" src=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/The-water-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/The-water-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/The-water.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-536\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The azure water of the mediterranean. Lots of rocks and no beaches in Rapallo.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Tim Turner Summer is a great time to pause and refresh by taking a vacation. My wife Melissa and I have been so blessed to be able to go on an annual anniversary trip.\u00a0\u00a0Well to rewind, the first few years were just dinner out, not a trip.\u00a0\u00a0We have over the years as the kids [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[54,40],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/527"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=527"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/527\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":555,"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/527\/revisions\/555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.torrid-tech.com\/community\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}